Zhee's Thoughts

 Hi readers 😍  It's another weekend again, hope we're enjoying it? mine started with house chores and cooking, I prepared semo for the house this morning but the semo wanted to disgrace me 🙆 a whole me that would soon go to my husband's house. Anyways to the glory of God we ate it like that because it's not me that would prepare another one. Next week would make it 3months that we started this journey and it's been wonderful interacting with you guys, you guys kept me going even when i wanted to stop writing . I've been getting so many beautiful reviews from my readers and some even brings me to tears .I love you all. Now to the order of the day ,someone suggested I make my write-ups a little bit lengthier so if this is longer than the usual pls enjoy with me .   Some years back...i, my younger sister,and my mother were walking somewhere and all of a sudden my mother noticed I wasn't wearing earrings and my sister was wearing , she asked me why I wasn'

 Hi readers 😍 How are you all doing? The last post made me realize some of us are going through things and we've suppressed and accepted it to be so but we should always be able our concerns and issues somehow that's why this blog was created.  I'll write on how parents cause sibling rivalry one day but not today. I mentioned sometime ago that my phone got spoilt ,to the glory of God yesterday it got repaired thanks to a well wisher. You guys!! I've finally accepted that there will be no ring on my finger any time soon (ask me why) .Two major incidents happened this past week that made me come to this conclusion. Stay tuned . The first incident: On Wednesday i followed my mother to oshodi market in lagos (drums rolling) we went to get some owanbe materials and it was all cool till it was time to go home .  Going home i was carrying the load to where we'll board a bus but then it got to a point I had to put the load on my head 😭 because my hand was aching . Tell me

 Hi readers 😍 Happy weekend everyone , I missed you guys although I'm not sure you guys missed me .Last week was a very hectic one for me especially because of the presidential election which is another story on its own. When I was younger my mother would always tell me that I'm the first born and I should always behave well, get good grades and the likes because my younger ones were looking up to me whilst I had no one to look up to. Now growing up I can understand why Esau sold his birthright to Jacob in the Bible because my dearsss it's not easy being the first child. As the first child ,you're an experiment to your parents,you're the one they'll use to run several hypothesis of parenthood since they haven't done it before but it's not supposed to be so. As parents, once you find out that you're pregnant start reading books about parenting but you see this our African parents they'll rely on how and what their ancestors taught them instead of