Zhee's Thoughts

 Hi readers❤❤ I no longer get excited about the weekend because it disappears within 30mins and before you know it another monday is here. I've been thinking a lot about my life and i've come to the conclusion that if getting a nursing degree would cost me my life then i want to be a car dealer .I know you're thinking why cars right? I'm a very big lover of cars (I know we all are) ,i like talking about cars,car brands,their features and the likes 🥺 you people won't understand until you see me talking about a car . So to the order of the day , we're still talking about depression and before i move on to the symptoms of depression, I'd like to say that one of the worst thing you  can say to a depressed person is that " Things will work out" or saying "You don't have to think too much about (whatever is causing the person to be depressed) or "The Lord is your strength" .The reason being that the depressed person knows that things

 Hi readers❤❤ It's another weekend again ,is it just me or this January isn't januarying 🤔all other Januarys have always been slow but this one is running like it's owing someone money . Anyways i want to talk about one major destabilizer of our mental health and that is depression. I know many of us claim that "we're depressed " especially university students (depression here and there) but are we really depressed ?? Recently we were taught depression in my class and the types and symptoms were listed and during that teaching my eyes were opened to some things . There is a difference between being sad and being depressed but so many people like the term 'depression' because it makes them feel woke .Last year i battled with depression a lot of times , I had suicidal thoughts so many times but thank God i didn't act on them . So many people didn't know i was battling with depression except for one person and that wasn't until the end of the

 Hi readers❤❤ Happy weekend everyone 🤗 I've decided to make this blog a weekly one because school has resumed 😪 I've been talking to my prospective husbands to come and marry me so they can open a supermarket for me and let me be a madam... i'm tired of school . Sorry guys the only way you can get a rich husband is by praying to this merciful God  lol if I know how to get a rich husband i won't be here writing stories I'll be busy taking care of my man 🥱. My week has been kind of stressful with back to back lectures ,my lecturers don't have chills at all but the love of this degree is what's still keeping me.  Anyways don't forget to mind your business guys and drink lots of water and also keep praying .It only gets better . Thanks for reading i love you . ❤💡😘

 Hi readers❤ Since you guys want to know about the date badly,here it is. The guy offered to come pick me up at home because i'm a baby girl that shouldn't be stressed and I agreed (the price of bolt was my determining factor) ,when he came i told him to stay a couple of houses away from mine the reason being that my family members would start asking question i wasn't interested in answering. We went to a place called food city (don't judge me i like food) ,we were getting to know each other better and i was already ticking boxes in my head (pls i must marry this year) we started with talking about God, church and things related to that ...in my head i was like 'get me a man that talks about God and i'm married' dramatic ? yeah i know .  Anyways the conversation got to a point where we asked about each other's age and he is 14 years older than me (if not that i was in public ,I would have fainted) although he looks older than me but I was thinking probab

 Hi readers ❤ My people my people how are you all doing?so i went on a date yesterday (I don't know if i should call it that ) anyway it was super boring but i got free dinner out of it. I think i'm done with talking stages for the year lol. Since I was like 18years, every new year's day is always a Q&A session featuring me,my mother and my big mommy. I always get grilled about my nonexistent boyfriend . It's not my fault that i'm single they just don't want to hear ,my mom always say i'm picky but i'm just particular about the kind of man i want .African mothers don't want to hear that anyways. Back to my date , our meeting was just like a scene out of a kdrama🤭 ,we met one day while it was raining,I was going home from church and he had to take shelter where I was standing also and we got talking, one thing led to another and we had our first date yesterday. If you want to know more about my date stay tuned 😉. I was wondering if i should make

 Hi readers ❤ Guys!! this past 2 days has been annoying asf,my phone fell into water and has been bad so i couldn't use it except to make and receive calls . I still haven't repaired it because my riches are still stored in heavenly places and i haven't converted it to naira yet  . I never thought the day would come where something would happen to my phone and all my concerns would be about writing🥴 I was seriously worried about the fact that i haven't written in two days and me writing this now is a miracle because my phone is still bad (as they say miracle no dey tire Jesus) . I realized something while I was just sitting and talking to myself yesterday , I was thinking that this year I don't want to be on God's strongest soldiers list .I want to live a soft life and i realized that God actually put curveballs in our paths because of how much he loves us and the size of the obstacles depicts how much God loves us and another thing I realized is that at the en

 Hi readers ❤❤ Let me start by wishing you a happy new year🥳🥳🥳, i hope we're excited for the new year ? I for one i'm very excited ,I've never been excited for a new year like this but this year is different because deep down I know i'm going to grow in a lot of ways and I can't wait . One of my plans for this new year is to start working out (might not seem like a lot )but i've been putting it off for so long due to laziness and procrastination remember i told you I have an inconsistency problem  but these things got nothing on me this year 😁😁. One major thing I left out in the past write-ups is that i'm a believer (I know you're wondering how because of my name , it's a long story so stay tuned to get the gist 😉) and this is a major pinnacle in this journey as God is the alpha and omega of this our journey . Today I'll be celebrating the new year in a grand style by eating lots of food and sleeping after church (ikr it sounds very fun 😊)