Zhee's Thoughts

 Hi readers 😍 How are you all doing? The last post made me realize some of us are going through things and we've suppressed and accepted it to be so but we should always be able our concerns and issues somehow that's why this blog was created.  I'll write on how parents cause sibling rivalry one day but not today. I mentioned sometime ago that my phone got spoilt ,to the glory of God yesterday it got repaired thanks to a well wisher. You guys!! I've finally accepted that there will be no ring on my finger any time soon (ask me why) .Two major incidents happened this past week that made me come to this conclusion. Stay tuned . The first incident: On Wednesday i followed my mother to oshodi market in lagos (drums rolling) we went to get some owanbe materials and it was all cool till it was time to go home .  Going home i was carrying the load to where we'll board a bus but then it got to a point I had to put the load on my head 😭 because my hand was aching . Tell me...

 Hi readers 😍 Happy weekend everyone , I missed you guys although I'm not sure you guys missed me .Last week was a very hectic one for me especially because of the presidential election which is another story on its own. When I was younger my mother would always tell me that I'm the first born and I should always behave well, get good grades and the likes because my younger ones were looking up to me whilst I had no one to look up to. Now growing up I can understand why Esau sold his birthright to Jacob in the Bible because my dearsss it's not easy being the first child. As the first child ,you're an experiment to your parents,you're the one they'll use to run several hypothesis of parenthood since they haven't done it before but it's not supposed to be so. As parents, once you find out that you're pregnant start reading books about parenting but you see this our African parents they'll rely on how and what their ancestors taught them instead of...

 Hi readers😍 It's that time of the week again,how's our weekend going? Mine's pretty boring . This week has been a rollercoaster of events ranging from scarcity of cash,valentine ,rioting in different parts of the country and the one I want to talk about (the video of when a man pays or gives money is when a certain lady can commit). So many times I've noticed some kind of sense of entitlement in ladies and it annoys me . I know some people will say 'don't you like money'? I can assure you that I love money and i'm not opposed to collecting money from the other gender however where it becomes an issue for me is when you think you can tell a man how to spend his money or telling him to give you money before /after you sleep with him.(you're just a glorified hookup girl in the disguise of a girlfriend). I have seen a scenario whereby this girl meets a guy and that same evening she was telling him she needs money to buy clothes (bro if you didn't m...

 Hi readers😍 You guys !!! I lost my dignity this week precisely on Monday. Let me give you the gist.     On Monday was the induction ceremony of the newly graduated medical students in my school and i went for the reception party with my fellowship members ,on getting there i collected rice,drink and jotter (all good right) .  You guys ...i went back to my hostel in the back of a pick up truck 😂 I'm putting this out here because it's possible you see my video on instablog when I finally blow and my haters want to blackmail me 😪. This is how it happened: my friends were the ones to pack the chairs and other sound instruments we used back to the church so i was waiting for them however by the time i finished waiting there was no school bus again and the other option was to take a bike but bike men said they weren't accepting transfer and there was no cash . What to do ? The pickup truck that was carrying chairs back to the church was there ,that's how my friend...

 Hi readers 😍 Finally January has ended 🥳🥳 it looked like it wasn't going to .Low key i didn't want january to end because my exams are starting this month😫.Anyways happy new month my lovelies 🥳🥳. With the way things are going in this country ,if you survive each day then you deserve a medal 🏅because Nigeria can now be likened to the kingdom of heaven where only the violent taketh by force ..pheew . At the beginning of this year ,I had some resolutions and some of them seemed impossible for me ,however I thought hard about it and how i was going to achieve some of them then i resolved to breaking it down monthly ,weekly and daily... i.e every month,week,day i had some goals to achieve .   There are some things that you'd want to do and that may seem daunting and you find yourself slacking , I think the best way to approach such situation is to break down those things into daily or weekly tasks. The most important step is for you to write down your goals first .For ...

 Hi readers❤❤ I no longer get excited about the weekend because it disappears within 30mins and before you know it another monday is here. I've been thinking a lot about my life and i've come to the conclusion that if getting a nursing degree would cost me my life then i want to be a car dealer .I know you're thinking why cars right? I'm a very big lover of cars (I know we all are) ,i like talking about cars,car brands,their features and the likes 🥺 you people won't understand until you see me talking about a car . So to the order of the day , we're still talking about depression and before i move on to the symptoms of depression, I'd like to say that one of the worst thing you  can say to a depressed person is that " Things will work out" or saying "You don't have to think too much about (whatever is causing the person to be depressed) or "The Lord is your strength" .The reason being that the depressed person knows that things ...

 Hi readers❤❤ It's another weekend again ,is it just me or this January isn't januarying 🤔all other Januarys have always been slow but this one is running like it's owing someone money . Anyways i want to talk about one major destabilizer of our mental health and that is depression. I know many of us claim that "we're depressed " especially university students (depression here and there) but are we really depressed ?? Recently we were taught depression in my class and the types and symptoms were listed and during that teaching my eyes were opened to some things . There is a difference between being sad and being depressed but so many people like the term 'depression' because it makes them feel woke .Last year i battled with depression a lot of times , I had suicidal thoughts so many times but thank God i didn't act on them . So many people didn't know i was battling with depression except for one person and that wasn't until the end of the...